It’s the stuff of fairy tales. Boy and girl meet as children, date in college, fall in love and live happily ever after. Carl and Clara Ward from Dalhart, Texas, were married on June 3, 1962, and celebrated 53 years together last year. Their lives are truly about togetherness. They have raised two daughters, worked as teachers in Lubbock, and enjoyed traveling across the United States and internationally, playing music and being with their family. Several years ago, Clara began developing signs of dementia, and Carl became her full-time caregiver. Now they live together at Mustang Creek Estates of Allen, where Clara is cared for by the staff, and Carl is able to relax and enjoy their time together along with their furry son, a Chihuahua-mix named Cocoa. After more than 50 years together and an unbreakable bond, the couple, along with their family and close friends, will renew their vows at Mustang Creek Estates of Allen on Saturday, February 27 at 2:00 p.m. The ceremony will be just like a traditional wedding, complete with a procession led by Cocoa, a reception, photographer and wedding cake. The Wards hope their marriage shows other couples that unconditional love should be the foundation of every marriage.
“I knew very quickly that Clara was the one for me – it’s just called love,” said Carl. “It goes back to the basis of our marriage, which is unconditional love. The vows we made on our wedding day were not just words, but the action behind them is what’s important. At the heart of marriage, you really have to care for the other person; otherwise it’s not going to work long-term. You have to learn to live with each other’s idiosyncrasies and their habits if you’re going to make it, and if you want your marriage to persevere, you can’t let the small stuff get in the way.”
They both pursued teaching as a career after attending what is now West Texas A&M. Clara taught fourth grade and computer classes. Carl spent most of his teaching career as a middle school band director, and later was also a computer teacher. Since they had summers off, they took advantage of their time together and spent it with their daughters. Their positive influence has carried down for generations, which inspired many of their family members to pursue careers in teaching, even after some swore they never would.
“If I had to describe their marriage in one word, it would be ‘connected’,” said their daughter, Shelly Fryer. “They have a mutual respect and love for one another. They have cared for each other all of their lives and been each other’s companion for more than 50 years, which is rare these days. They relied on each other and our home was always filled with love. Their relationship, and the way they care for one another – it’s something my husband and I try to model our own marriage after. They have a very special relationship.”
“The Wards are such a special couple and we’re so proud to have them as residents,” said Tegjula Hilburn, executive director of Mustang Creek Estates of Allen. “We wanted to honor their commitment to marriage by hosting the vow renewal, and we are thrilled to host this memorable event for them and their family to enjoy.”
As the Wards look forward to a special day set aside to acknowledge their commitment to each other, they look back and see that they’ve stayed true their wedding vows throughout their relationship, and they are proud of what they’ve accomplished.